I first learned the power of questions from Barry Neil Kaufman, author of To Love Is To Be Happy With. “Bears,” as he likes to be called, teaches that you can. This is the first recording of Bruce Di Marsico to be released by his widow, Deborah Mendel. Bruce created the Option Method in In this live recording . The Collected Works of Bruce Di Marsico on the Option Method & Attitude, Vol. 1 [ Bruce Di Marsico, Deborah Mendel, Wendy Dolber, Frank Mosca, Aryeh.
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There was just happiness. Should I let Bruce speak for himself? Bruce explains how our beliefs affect our happiness. Results will be faster if you actually work with a coach trained to help you get clear of your beliefs. Di Marsico, the creator of Option, died Monday, December 4,after a long illness. Bruce was an extraordinary man, teacher, friend, husband. She waited until my session was over then came in to visit with us for a few moments.
Every day I use his lessons to help me brucr against the tide of belief in un-happiness in which we live. You really need the attitude of detachment, curiosity, and pure accepting love behind every question.
The Option Method is not about memorizing questions. I was definitely concerned about this dinner event. As I sat thinking of what to say about my memories of Bruce, my mind ranged over the years and the many wonderful things he had said that were so incredibly clarifying and insightful.
Recognizing that what he was searching for was not within the confines of the monastery, Bruce began to find his true calling while studying psychology and philosophy in the s at Seton Hall University, New Jersey.
He said he wanted me to know how he worked. A Practical Guide by Bruce M.
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Bruce Di Marsico taught me how to be happy. PPS — This free new e-book can help you, too: Anne Grete said she guessed she had stayed in Ulster County where she was born for so long because she was scared to leave. What precisely was so special about Bruce? I heard them talking. It was an adventure to become gloriously entangled in the web of agreements and disagreements with him over this never ending feast of topics, from the sublime to the ridiculous.
But there was something more profound for me. A powerful man with a profound gift. Well, I will try, my friends, for you. I recalled the moments in his kitchen speaking about really nothing much at all: Di Marsico To see him interact on a personal individual level with a student or friend was always a joy and many times, an awesome experience.
Option and Happiness are what I live, breathe and be and I am so utterly grateful to him. Life redirected me into writing books and coaching people through words. He loved to be with students. I relished that moment of surprise at having missed the belief, like the moment when a missing puzzle piece jumps out to become so obvious!
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Whether he was sitting in his living room with them or around the kitchen table, Bruce preferred to teach in his own very unique dynamic way. Several friends asked me to write something about Bruce for this issue. Both roots are quite appropriate for the name of the method whose goal is to serve by helping people to realize the role that fi choice plays in their emotional states.
Find out more about the audio CD. Available as individual volumes or as a complete set at DialoguesinSelfDiscovery. We talked and had lunch together. I traveled through his eyes, and his voice as he spoke ageless wisdom, guiding me through myself, and changing me forever.
Bruce Di Marsico They may feel like facts, but beliefs are mental judgments we made up at some point for a variety of reasons. Years later while at work as a psychotherapist, and human relations consultant, he came to develop the Option Method as a self-help tool to help people become happier in their everyday lives.
He never did get around to publishing a book himself, but he left us with a wealth of material to work with. He loved to love.
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That of course can be anythingfrom what I heard matsico what I saw. He never felt obliged to explain himself in the slightest, and yet he would spend whatever time it took to explore his motives and the responses of others in the service of helping them clarify some possible unhappiness they were experiencing.
In brief, what Bruce was about most of the time was the pure zest of life, eating, laughing, joking around and pursuing a vast range of topics from everyday life with an ongoing, honest surge of wonder and excitement.
One of my favorites is from Morty Lefkoe. That question is searching for the evidence of the belief. Any sense of judgment will shut down your willingness to explore. Which brings me to vi final part of this reminiscence. I studied with Bears in and still reflect back on what I learned from him.